airing dirty laundry.
okay, so if you like someone and then all of a sudden they turn into a raving, self-deprecating monster, i.e., "i have no idea why you like me," "i am so fucked up," "if i were you, i wouldn't go out with me again" but then simultaneously tell you how fucking amazing you are... you would believe that they aren't trying to preemptively end it, correct?
correct.
why is it that men like this are attracted to me?
i'm not sure where to go with this guy. i do like him, but honey, he's gotta grow a pair. (ooh, jen, that's mean.) as i asked him last night, if you like someone, why hand that person a myriad of reasons as to why they shouldn't like you back?
ugh. dating. now i remember why i dug staying single.
1 comment:
in my extensive exp. with boys like this - and it is unfortuantely extensive, as this is what m. did and d. did and bp did a few years ago, to name but a few - the boys say this in the hopes that it will cause you to leave or treat them badly and thus fulfill their predictions full of self-loathing. if you don't leave, then they dump you in a horrific manner b/c anyone that would stay with them after she knew what a self-loathing jerk they were must be even worse than them. or at least i think that's the logic behind it. i would hang out with him but keep your feelings locked away, at least for now.
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